Is Conflict Your Thing? - [website] Published: 31st of May 2011 by: Debbie Engelbrecht
Well some people like conflict! Lots of it! The more the better!
The thing is, they like negative conflict, or shall we call it drama? The same problems over and over again ad infinitum.
The words “negative conflict” should have triggered a thought or two by now...but the fact is conflict in itself is simply a tool to lead us to a new and positive outcome...if we so choose.
The choices are simple:
Do I choose to compete and win at all costs?
Do I choose to assert and co-operate evenly?
If you take the latter option – conflict becomes positive, and positive conflict, well, it isn’t really conflict at all is it? It’s simply the solving of issues. Leaves time for more important stuff…so I am off, see you later.
